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Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Food for Thought

How do you explain to people who say that if you're fundraising, you shouldn't adopt a child because you cannot afford to raise a child?  How do you make them understand that there are many fees attached to the adoption process that not everyone knows about?  Or that there's a tax write-off for adoption funds?  Or that you DO have the funds and home and heart to raise a child in a very nice home, to save money for their college fund, to take care of them....but you don't necessarily have the 10k to 50k+ upfront that could be needed for an adoption?

Received this message tonight on one of our fundraisers.  Not sure if I should waste my time and think about this some more....or not give it a second thought?

A message I received tonight on my GOFUNDME account.  Originally I deleted it.  But now I'm going to put it out there.  If you agree with her post, please let me know.

Dear Mindi,

Jeanette Jancee has posted a comment to your fund:

No, you are not ENTITLED to a baby. You are ESPECIALLY not entitled to SOMEBODY ELSE's baby! The fact that you're fundraising?? Tells me you CANNOT AFFORD A BABY. This business of claiming to be able to care for a kid but not pay the fees to adopt that kid? A TOTAL CROCK!! Do you know why women relinquish babies? Cuz they cannot afford to raise them!! Neither can YOU!

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1 comment:

  1. This person is a heartless bitch. I don't know very many people in my life that can just pull that kind of money out of their assholes. I do, however, know several people that have adopted and have needed to raise money for the fees. They are also raising their children just fine and they want for nothing. Don't give this douche nozzle another thought. "Opinions are like assholes...everyone's got one."

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