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Mindi has left the Facebook building.

Yesterday, I decided to do some Spring cleaning.  Which means clean out my "friends" list, keep those that want to be kept, delete those who prefer to leave.  Just as at least one of my friends does every single week.   Without judgement and accusations and drama.  Oh wouldn't that be lovely, a Mindi world without judgement or accusations or drama?

Backtracking a bit.  A few days ago I posted something asking why people who seemingly have no interest in me and almost show a bit of contempt towards me feel the need to remain my friend on Facebook.  If you don't want to be friends with me, don't.  Seems simple enough.  Anyway, that was directed towards one or two people.  And one of those two people were the first to accuse and judge and provide a good backdrop for drama.

Rather than have the thread go on and on, and have more people voice their opinions on something that OTHER PEOPLE DO EVERY STINKING DAY, I deleted the thread.  And then I deactivated my account.  As one of the people who replied suggested, I have found peace.  Peace in one simple word.  Deactivate!  Wasn't that something the Wonder Twins said?  I wonder if it brought them peace?

So the very first offensive (to me) post suggested that I was only seeking attention and using emotional blackmail in doing a Spring cleaning.  "If you don't love me, I'll delete you".  I find it sickening that this particular woman is the one that I was questioning as to why she remained my friend.  Her comment was totally out of the woodwork.  I respond to her posts, generally, when I see them, and never get a response.  And never see responses from her on my threads.  So NOW she decides to put her hurtful and WRONG two cents in?  Come on Bonnie.  I'm not dumb.

In the middle of people posting and telling me to keep them on my friends list, a few more people responded, agreeing with Bonnie.  One person wrote that she hoped I found peace soon.  Really?  All of this because I wanted to clean up my friends list?  Really?  Pathetic.  Yes, I overreacted.  Of course I did, I'm not an idiot, I know this.  That being said, was it really necessary for the judgement post?  Is that something that could have been done in private message?  Ah, but private message would not have brought the drama.

Anyway.....for now, I can be reached at mpiasecki@new.rr.com  or text 920-475-0359.

No, I have not lost my mind.  Not even close.  Seeing very clearly now, thanks!